Social media, i.e. Facebook, can either be a blessing or a curse. In this case it was a blessing, or at least where this adventure begins. I saw a post by my suite mate saying something to the effect that instead of going to the beach this summer, she was going to London with her college suite mate, my roommate, Pam. Teasingly, I posted that I was jealous, since I had always wanted to go there and suggested that they should have asked their other suite mate/roommate. I was a little surprised to get a message from my roommate asking if I wanted to go. Pam knows that I've never flown, that I actually have a fear of flying (which is a whole other post for later). I figured that she probably thought that I would say no, but instead, I said let me think about it over night.
First, I went to my husband, Jay, and asked what he thought. I knew it would be expensive and I didn't want to do something that was going to cost us extra. His response was that I should take advantage of the opportunity to do something with my friends. He pointed out that first of all, I wasn't getting any younger, second that I might never have a chance like this present itself again, and third that this was a lifelong dream of mine and that I shouldn't let money stand in my way.
Next, I called my aunt. Now the reason I called my aunt is because I respect her opinion and she flew to Hawaii last year after having never flown either. My thinking was that if she could get on a plane at seventy then I can get on one at 56. Her response echoed my husband's.
Then, I called my son. It's always a good thing to ask your children what they think. "Are you serious Mom? Get on the plane!" That sounded like a yes to me.
Last, I called my best friend Carol. She flies several times a year to exotic vacation locales like Cozumel and the Bahamas. Places with warm sunny beaches. "GET YOUR REAR END* ON THE PLANE OR I'LL KICK IT ON THERE!"
*Substitute another word that is a synonym for rear end.
It's settled. I'm going. My message back to Pam: "I'm in! No turning back now that I've sent this."
This is us the last time we got together. Teresa, Pam, & Terri